Chapter One
The Evolution of Marriage and the Family
Syllabus topic 1.1, "Evolution of the institution of marriage and family"
In one line
Marriage among Hindus began as a sacrament that could not be undone, and the law of the last two centuries has been the slow business of turning it into something a person can enter, and leave, as an individual.
What the syllabus is asking
Topic 1.1 asks for the evolution of the institution of marriage and family. It is not asking for an anthropology essay. It is asking for the background against which every statute in this module makes sense.
Read the module as a whole and the shape is plain. Sati abolished. Widow remarriage permitted. Child marriage restrained, then prohibited. Dowry criminalised. Polygamy ended for Hindus. Divorce introduced, then divorce by consent, then a court power to dissolve a dead marriage. Family courts created. Every one of those is a step in one direction: away from marriage as an indissoluble sacramental status binding two families, and towards marriage as a relationship between two individuals which the law will help them leave.
The theories of how the family began
Nineteenth-century writers tried to reconstruct the earliest form of human association, and their accounts are still what a syllabus means by "evolution". They should be stated as theories, not as history, because the evidence for them is thin and later scholarship has been sceptical.
The theory of original promiscuity. The earliest condition is said to have been one with no stable pairing, so that paternity could not be known.
The matriarchal theory. From that condition, descent could only be traced through the mother, so the earliest organised family was matrilineal and authority lay with the mother's kin. Writers such as Bachofen and Morgan argued along these lines.
The patriarchal theory. Others, notably Sir Henry Maine, argued the opposite: that the earliest unit was the patriarchal family, a group of persons under the authority of the eldest male ascendant, and that society developed from status to contract as the individual gradually emerged from that group.
The theory that pairing came first. Westermarck argued that a stable pairing relationship was primitive rather than late, and that the promiscuity hypothesis had no evidential support.
For a law student the useful point is Maine's, because it names the movement the rest of this course describes. Hindu law began with the group, the joint family, in which a person's rights came from status inside it. Modern family law deals with individuals who make and unmake their own relationships. Module II is the old world and Module I is the new one, sitting in the same syllabus.
The forms of marriage
MU asks for these as one-sentence definitions, so learn them as definitions.
Monogamy. One husband and one wife at a time. This is now the only lawful form for Hindus, by section 5(i) of the Hindu Marriage Act.
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Polygamy. A general word for marriage to more than one spouse at a time. It has two species, and an answer that stops at the general word loses marks.
Polygyny. One husband with more than one wife at the same time. This is what was permitted to Hindu men before 1955 and is what section 5(i) abolished.
Polyandry. One wife with more than one husband at the same time. It was practised in some communities, notably in parts of the Himalayan region and among some south Indian groups, and is sometimes divided into fraternal polyandry, where the husbands are brothers, and non-fraternal polyandry, where they are not.
Endogamy and exogamy. Endogamy is the rule that one must marry inside a defined group, such as a caste. Exogamy is the rule that one must marry outside a defined group, such as a gotra or a village. Hindu marriage has classically been both at once: endogamous as to caste and exogamous as to gotra and sapinda relationship, which is why the rules in sections 5(iv) and 5(v) look like prohibitions rather than permissions.
The eight forms of Hindu marriage
The classical texts, and Manu in particular, list eight forms. They are traditionally divided into four approved and four disapproved, and the division tells you what the tradition valued.
The four approved forms:
Brahma. The father gives his daughter, after decking her with ornaments, to a man of good conduct learned in the Vedas whom he has himself invited. This is the highest form and the model on which the modern ceremony is built.
Daiva. The daughter is given to a priest who officiates at a sacrifice, in the course of the rite.
Arsha. The father gives the daughter after receiving from the bridegroom a cow and a bull, or two pairs, for the purpose of the sacrifice and not as a price.
Prajapatya. The father gives the daughter with the injunction that the two are to perform their civil and religious duties together.
The four disapproved forms:
Asura. The bridegroom gives wealth to the bride's family and to the bride, and receives her. This is marriage by purchase, and the condemnation of it in the texts is the ancestor of the modern law against dowry, though it runs the other way.
Gandharva. A union by the mutual consent and desire of the man and the woman, arising out of attachment. This is the form the modern law most resembles, and it is the one at issue in Bhaurao Lokhande, discussed in [Conditions, Ceremonies and Registration of a Hindu Marriage], where the Supreme Court held that even a gandharva marriage requires the essential ceremonies unless custom has modified them.
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Rakshasa. Marriage by capture, the forcible seizure of the woman.
Paisacha. The seduction of a woman who is asleep, intoxicated or of unsound mind. The texts call it the basest of all.
Two things follow that are worth writing. First, the disapproved forms were still marriages: they were condemned, not void, which is a very different thing from the modern law. Second, the modern Act has swept all eight away. Section 7 requires only the customary rites of either party, and section 5 sets the conditions. The eight forms survive as history and as an examination topic, not as law.
Marriage as sacrament and marriage as contract
This is the thread of the whole module, and MU expects it in an answer on evolution.
The classical position: a sacrament. Hindu marriage was a samskara, one of the sacraments marking the stages of life. It was a religious duty rather than an agreement; its purpose was the performance of religious rites, the continuance of the line and the discharge of debts to the ancestors. It was indissoluble, because a sacrament once performed cannot be undone. It was for the families as much as for the couple, which is why the gift of the bride by her father is the centre of the highest form. And the consent of the parties was not essential, which is how child marriage was possible at all.
The modern position: not quite a contract. The Hindu Marriage Act has taken most of that apart. It sets conditions of capacity, including a marrying age and a requirement of capacity to consent. It permits nullity, judicial separation and divorce. It allows divorce by mutual consent. It provides for maintenance, custody and property.
But it has not made marriage a contract, and this is the point to be precise about. A contract can be made by anyone competent, on any lawful terms, and dissolved by agreement at any time. A Hindu marriage still requires a ceremony, still cannot be dissolved except by a court, still cannot be varied by agreement in its essentials, and still confers a status that binds third parties.
The accurate statement is that Hindu marriage has moved a long way from sacrament towards contract without arriving, and that what it now is, is a statutory status entered by ceremony and dissolved by decree. That formulation will serve for any question on the sacramental character of Hindu marriage.
The family, and where it is going
The last part of topic 1.1 is the family rather than the marriage, and the standard account is a movement from the large to the small.
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The classical unit was the joint family, several generations living together, holding property together, with authority in the eldest male. That unit is the subject of Module II and is still legally alive.
What has happened around it is well documented: migration to cities, wage employment that does not depend on family land, education, the entry of women into paid work, and legislation that gives individuals rights against the group. The nuclear family of a couple and their children has become the ordinary residential unit even where the joint family survives as a property-holding one.
Two cautions worth having in an answer. First, the joint family has not disappeared. It survives as a legal institution, as a taxable unit under the Income-tax Act, and as a set of expectations about obligation. Second, the direction of legal change has not been simply towards the individual: the Maintenance and Welfare of Parents and Senior Citizens Act 2007, taken later in this book, is Parliament putting back by statute an obligation the joint family used to supply by itself. When the family stopped maintaining its old, the State had to make it do so.
A worked example
An examiner asks: "Trace the evolution of marriage and the family, and say whether Hindu marriage is a sacrament or a contract."
Begin with the theories. Promiscuity, that early society had no regulated unions; the matriarchal theory, that descent was first traced through the mother; the patriarchal theory, associated with Maine, that the family was from the first under the father's authority; and Westermarck's pairing theory, that the pairing family was the earliest and most stable form.
Then Maine's formula. The movement of progressive societies has been from status to contract, and it names the direction the law of marriage has since travelled.
Then the forms. Monogamy, one spouse at a time; polygamy, more than one, of which the species are polygyny, one man with several wives, and polyandry, one woman with several husbands. Alongside these run endogamy, marrying within a group, and exogamy, marrying outside it, and Hindu marriage works both at once: within the caste, outside the sapinda circle.
Then the eight classical forms. Four approved, Brahma, Daiva, Arsha and Prajapatya; four disapproved, Asura, Gandharva, Rakshasa and Paisacha. Section 7 of the Hindu Marriage Act abolished them in substance by adopting whatever ceremony the custom of either party provides.
Then the sacrament-or-contract question. As a sacrament it was indissoluble, of religious obligation, and entered by ceremony. As a contract it would require free consent and be terminable by agreement.
And the correct answer. It is now neither: a statutory status entered by ceremony and ended by decree. Consent matters, since unsoundness of mind and fraud make a marriage voidable; but the parties cannot fix their own terms, and only a court can dissolve it.
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What it does NOT mean
Polygamy is not polygyny. Polygamy is the genus; polygyny and polyandry are its species.
Endogamy and exogamy are not alternatives. Hindu marriage requires both, within the group and outside the prohibited circle.
The eight forms are not eight ceremonies still in use. Section 7 adopts the custom of either party and prescribes no form.
"Sacrament" does not mean the marriage is indissoluble today. Section 13 dissolves it.
"Contract" does not mean the parties may set their own terms. The conditions are statutory and the marriage ends only by decree.
Maine's formula is not a rule of law. It describes a movement, and it is quoted for that.
Quick revision
- Theories of origin: promiscuity; matriarchal; patriarchal, associated with Maine; and Westermarck's pairing theory. Maine: progressive societies move from status to contract.
- Forms of marriage: monogamy; polygamy, whose species are polygyny and polyandry; with endogamy and exogamy operating together.
- The eight Hindu forms: approved, Brahma, Daiva, Arsha, Prajapatya; disapproved, Asura, Gandharva, Rakshasa, Paisacha. All abolished in substance by s.7.
- Sacrament or contract: neither. Hindu marriage is now a statutory status, entered by ceremony under s.7 and ended by decree under s.13.
- The family: moving from joint to nuclear, from status to individual right, and from a unit of production to a unit of consumption.
Test yourself
1. Name the theories of the origin of the family. The theory of promiscuity; the matriarchal theory; the patriarchal theory, associated with Maine; and Westermarck's pairing theory.
2. What are the eight forms of Hindu marriage? The four approved forms, Brahma, Daiva, Arsha and Prajapatya, and the four disapproved forms, Asura, Gandharva, Rakshasa and Paisacha.
3. Distinguish polygyny from polyandry. Both are species of polygamy. Polygyny is the marriage of one man to more than one woman at the same time; polyandry is the marriage of one woman to more than one man.
4. Is Hindu marriage a sacrament or a contract? Neither, as the law now stands. It retains the sacramental element in that it is entered by ceremony under section 7, and it has contractual elements in that consent matters, so that unsoundness of mind or fraud makes it voidable. But the parties cannot settle their own terms and cannot dissolve it by agreement alone; it is a statutory status entered by ceremony and ended by a decree of court.